Hi, i just read your post and i feel exactly the same way. Hi Sherriel - I had the same bladder pressure issue. Still have anxiety through the roof. Gross as they are, I was relieve that was all it was. I will be fine for a few weeks and out of the blue I feel like I have a knot in my upper stomach and feel like throwing up. It's consuming my life as it's all I think about. Then it will go away and come back. I am not bleeding, no heart burn, not bloated, not gaining or losing any weight just the occasional nausea which has been going on for years. Maybe you could that, give the natural route a go and if you are not satisfied with the results you could then weigh up taking antibiotics. I am about 2 months shy of my menoversary and i dont want anything to interfere with that. mind you it was very painful some days but I guess sad to say I've learned most days to cope. Im scared at nights as well, I had a panic attack the other night, I was so scared!! Have your symptoms gotten any better? Hi Vicky. I also have developed a health anxiety. It lasted for about 6 months and then new symptoms took over and the bladder issues went away. every 2 days. my cardiologist prescribed me for palpitations but my body didnt like at all i felt i was passing out . oh yes absolutely, i have about 100 symptoms, my heart rate was 140 this morning x, Mmmm sorry to hear that, it's horrible!! By placing the attention primarily on the feelings and needs of the speaker, it focuses the conversation on solving a problem rather than assigning blame. Im so glad I'm not alone. I dont want to use anti depressants either. I have had every test you can think of as well and feel the same as you. It's hard to explain. While there is no guarantee that the other person will respond in a receptive way, using feeling statements can minimize the risk that the conversation will devolve into hostility and argumentativeness. Hope to hear back from you to see if you ever dealt with the reflux and difficulty burping. I wish you the best too, let me know if you need to talk. Premarin and yes, i know about the mares I wanted to try this first as it got more good reviews than Estrace . I had lots of stomach issues with Covid, super constipated and it lasted for what seemed like forever but I also have belly issues with peri. We want the forums to be a useful resource for our users but it is important to remember that the forums are I have this weird bladder pressure but i dont think its Interstatial Cystitis because i dont have any pain, thank God! And tons of other symptoms but No hot flashes. How Much Relationship Privacy Do You Need? WHY did I say that? also another symptom of perimenopause is obtrusive thoughts with no factual basis. You know they are bad when you are asking for the alternating constipation/diarrhea to come back so you can be over the urinary symptoms! In case something happens so I'm near the hospital. We are strong women and our bodies go through so much (bleed like a stuck pig for decades of our life, push amazing objects our of us the size of an average bowling ball then try and figure out what to do with this object for the next 18 years cuz the little suckers don't come with handbooks, our bodies are dis-figured and scared out of love, then we go through THIS - lol). I read a lots try to keep my mind occupied till I get tired and I fall asleep.. I had this done back in November. have had periods off/on during course of last 3 years --- during which hospitalized twice for extreme nausea, dry heaving and dehydration. I've been in perimenopause for five years now, but this fear and anxiety started this year, now with the lockdown and Covid19 it's even harder for me. NO APPETITE either. I was also so relieved to find this site and posts as have been experiencing the same symptoms, anxiety about health, aching joints, feeling sick in the morning, just found I have polyps, which has given some reassurance regarding irregular bleeding. i've had numerous tests done as well, but I still get all these aches and pains, which lead me to think the worse. However, regularly feeling misunderstood can be a sign of a need to work on communication skills. I suffer terrible medical anxiety so understand what you are going through. "I feel" statements should state how the speaker is feeling, the cause of that feeling, and a potential solution. Read our editorial policy. I've done that too a few times. Its Feb 5 now and on April 15 it will be my one full year without a period. I am 62 and endocrinologist suggested I go down on my hormone and now in bed so ill. lol. By using feeling statements during family therapy, family members can begin to communicate with one another more effectively. My jaw is always tight, my neck hurts, my ears are ringing. Could this be hormones? For example, a person might say something like, "I feel like you don't care.". doi:10.7717/peerj.4831, Biesen JN, Schooler DE, Smith DA. Me too , i took propranolol for palpitaions and felt that im about to passout . These I-statements should state how the speaker is feeling, connect it to an issue, and offer a possible solution. For example i google "urination problems in your fifties" or something like that and guess popped up? Worst day of my life. the worst feeling ever. Out of all the symptoms I have had, the urinary ones were the worst! The technical storage or access is required to create user profiles to send advertising, or to track the user on a website or across several websites for similar marketing purposes. it was prescribed me for palpitations but i felt even sicker taking it . Put a little on your finger. Does propranolol help you? Although i hate that other women are suffering, at least i know im not imagining these issues. Its supposed to be a bone/liver blood marker. I really hope everyone feels better soon! Although there is some mention of the other persons behavior, the focus continues to be on the uncomfortable feeling experienced by the speaker. ScarlxrdPSYCHX 2022 Kordhell x ScarlxrdReleased on: 2022-10-28Producer: KordhellAuto. I-messages are frequently utilized as a way to resolve conflict without putting people on the defensive. Together they focus on the present activity and their feelings instead of blaming one another. I come on this forum from time to time when i get scared thoughseeing you mention the rib pain will help me sleep a bit tonight - thank you . I feel tired and joint pain. Feels like a strange sort of pressure. Just let me know if you have any questions. Thank you for your testimony! I am supposed to see a rheumatologist on Feb 14. You mentioned you had pressure. Ive been told by my male gynecologist that i dont have vaginal atrophy. so sick of the bloating, sickness and flatulence! I've had perimenopause for the last two years. kadija. I don't have any other "bad" symptoms like bloating, bleeding, heart burn, weight gain just this pressure down. i am glad to say while they can still come, they are at least frequent. When i had bloodwork again in August, 2019 i found out it was elevated. She practices in Washington state and im in Virginia so i have to watch her on YouTube. Using feeling statements takes practice, and it may be hard to use them consistently, especially at first. i am fed up of being a moaner . I am 54 and don't want to go onto HRT hoping things will start to ease now I have gone for a year without a period, wishful thinking! I hope that reassures you a bit. Hi Becky, sorry to hear that you're having the same problem. I feel the same have so many peri menopausal symptoms , im in a constant pain days in days out . do you feel good after taking only Oregano oil ? I think in part He is what led me to the menopause boards!. Very scared. The technical storage or access is strictly necessary for the legitimate purpose of enabling the use of a specific service explicitly requested by the subscriber or user, or for the sole purpose of carrying out the transmission of a communication over an electronic communications network. kadija. I dont think its IC but i get this pressure but very little urine. Hopefully in a few years we will feel back to a new normal. I don't have headaches, a little congested but I don't think it's allergies. I don't know why I am not getting notification on responses. Looking back I am pretty sure I am 8 months into it but symptoms are getting worse. Thanks for that Sherricl I also had one polyp removed there and then just waiting for another one to be removed and hoping all is well with test results . Can I ask which menopause supplements are you taking? Strange taste in my mouth and don't know from one day to the next what symptoms I will have when i wake up. No one told me about the weird anxiety, vertigo and digestive issues. Its awful and i dont know if things are going to magically settle down after im post menopause. Several other times no hospitilization very nauseous with dry heaves. I use calendula every morning. x. I started the Premarin last night and only use a pea size amt on the outside and near the opening. I'm having the same problems with my liver.My Alp is 150 and I'm getting test done next week and google has scared the crap out of me. I just want to feel better and stay well. Looking back now, these bouts of nausea had me scared to death (yep, Googled every type of cancer under the sun and thought I had every one of them!) So weird. If users wish to exchange details please use the Private Message service. Thank you for your response , The gastro advises me after taking the antibiotics for Sibo then do food map diet and take one of the PPI omeprazole along probiotic and see if it gets better then if not they will ck my acid level by inserting a tube as you said sometimes we have low acid . Anyway she says to throw away the applicator to the vaginal estrogen. 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It occured to me when I had a bout of yeast infections that would not go away without diflucan for about three months, but the feeling when I knew I had a yeast infection was bladder discomfort like Interstitial Cystitis. Last night I had a few panic attacks and my chest felt like I'm wheezing, my jaw and neck felt painful. I had lots of tests all came back negative. It seems to hit like every 3 months and last for about a week (which seems like a year)! I hope you feel better but at least you know you aren't alone. 'I feel' statements can be contrasted with 'you' statements, which are more confrontational and place the blame directly on the listener. and one day was gone..For me the anxiety is the worst! I speak to my kids about the situation but not to the full extent of what I'm going thru, so they don't really understand all these weird symptoms I'm getting. Im now seeing a traditional Gastro Dr who takes my insurance i was praying not to repeat tests with her which she didnt . I last bled in December and FSH test came out at 76. Waking up after 3 hrs of sleep in complete panic. Blood tests ok too. My doctors say they fodt worry about my levels unless it was 3 times higher. What i cannot understand is why i havent met anyone that i come into daily life with that has had these horrifying symptoms? If i start bleeding again, please God no, i dont want to have to guess uf its the HRT or if im still in perimenopause and not menopausal yet. I would advise you to stop, I did it so much that I had severe health anxiety. If you look around at other posts, you will see that most women that post have had tons of medical management of symptoms done, lots of tests, blood work, treatments that have shown nothing because peri is so misunderstood. Bladder still bothers me with this pressure. This might involve a person saying something like, "I feel angrywhen I am alone and you are out with your friends. I'm here for you if you need to talk, Hi Viola, I was afraid this thread was dead since the last entry was 6 weeks ago but still wanted to give it a shot. Good for a few weeks and it would come back for a week +. but i have had every fear under the sun. Journal of Language and Social Psychology. I'm not sure if i caused them myself with the constant worry. Thank you In advance . I'm too old for HRT. My doctors tell me everything is fine as i have had normal CT scans and normal gyn ultrasounds. i am beyond tired everyday all day ( prob cause i dont sleep much ) and my body doesnt feel good. I occasionally get tachy but not as often as I used to. I also have been fighting migraines, so painful they cause vomiting. I feel nauseous rather flu-like, have the anxiety especially health anxiety, muscular aches and pains, digestive issues, and the weirdest bladder symptoms ever. Now nausea! Misunderstandings in relationships happen to everyone. I saw a urologist video by a female urologist, Kelly Caperpace or something like that. I hope things get better for all of us. I have patches on my feet that burn, yet when I look there is nothing there, my body goes stiff and I feel like I'm swaying, I have strange feelings in my fingers, I have panic attacks with sob, sweating, fast heart rate every time I need a bowel movement. I pray for daily clarity and reminders that is hormones and it will pass. Did yours go back down.? You are absolutely right about googling. hello I have had the same dry mouth burning tongue, its hard for me to eat it drives me crazy I am 54 years old I had a hysterectomy about a year and a half ago but I still have my ovaries right after my 54th birthday all of these things just kicked in at once. Because docs dont have personalized answers so we go to Dr Google where EVERYTHING is cancer. I apologize for the TMI. I have lists and lists of symptoms , just wondering what sill be next you are not alone , keep your faith . The use of I-messages is also more likely to evoke feelings of empathy, cooperation, and openness to negotiation in listeners. It can cause dryness, itching, burning, painful intercourse and can also cause unpleasant urinary symptoms. I have prostate problemslol! Um, i dont think so. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for statistical purposes. What next! as being in breach of those terms. For example, the speaker in the previous example might say, "I feel sad that I have to do this alone. All the above symptoms I can relate to. Strangely sad, too. So I just suffer. Im thinking i might have Vaginal Atrophy. I've tried my hardest not to Google symptoms because of course everything points to cancer (my biggest fear). Hello, please can someone help to ease the absolute terror I have that I've got some terrible neurological disease? My prayers are with all of us. this will all pass so dont worry but get help if you need it. I wouldn't say I'm 100% cured because I still have some issues now and again but I am so much better. yes I'm the same. I feel your pain, you have my sympathy and hope that by telling my tale, you know that there are other women out there going through the same thing. I fell on my tailbone when I was a teenager REALLY hard and I was warned this might catch up to me and boy it did. Gottman JM, Silver N.The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. My mom never mentioned it. ", "I feel sad when it seems like my feelings are not taken seriously.". When the other person is immediately on the defense, they are less likely to listen and respond with an open mind. It is not all the time but it seems to hit me every few months and lasts for about a week. I also use a moisturizer Gynetrof and Calendula ointment. Doesn't really make me feel better as it's easy to think something was growing and wasn't yet visible to themthe mind gamesmy only ray of hope is that it has been less noticeable sometimes so i figure that wouldn't happen if it was a progressive disease. I think when hormones are off, the pH gets messed up and causes all sorts of strange things in the bladder/vagina. i had that for a few years and the more i was stressing about it the worst the discomfort got! It comes and goes and I cont plans my life because of this nausea. I've lost almost all interest in guys. These are my symptoms, and the past 10 days have been the worstHowever in under a month I would have reached a year without a period. Hello Sasical hope this email finds you well . The best news us it came back benign. im tired of being sick im praying hard to have helthy day and restful night . This page is used to house a list of albums in Extreme Music's Scoreganics (SCS) series. they reassured me they are fine and this too shall pass. i just got home from the er where all my tests were normal. I have also had digestive issues with bloating and gas - feel the need to burp. How are you honey! I was just about ready to start to take medication then I got my period and that was the end of it. I am hoping its vaginal atrophy or stress b ecause i can deal with that a lot easier because it is reversible. I am there with you. earlier this year I had a terrible panic attack. You could not have said it better. 'I feel' statements are a way of communicating the speaker's feelings or beliefs. Other researchers have found that couples that utilize "you" language during conflict discussions have less effective interactions. So the feeling of sadness is actually scaring me. my nausea was about once a month for over a year. When one person is communicating in a way that is non-confrontational and emotion-focused, the listeners are more likely to match their own responses to that of the speaker. Synonyms for I Feel (other words and phrases for I Feel). im learning that women especially watch other women for styles and although we do admire other women, it doesnt mean you are attracted to them. Before you go through menopause you just expect to have hot flashes and the other standard side effects. Omg I thought I was dying, tight chest. I have also had the urinary issues, mine lasted for about 8 months and seem to have tapered off just as some of my other peri symptoms have acted up again. The health anxiety I have developed is almost paralysing. Two different meds, for this, and neither one helped. sending lots of hugs to you all feeling the same way xx. I still have the weird digestive issues unfortunately. I have no appetite, nausea, dry mouth, incredibly fatigued - tired, headaches, occasional hot flashes, night sweats, etc.. Fighting to keep weight on via force feeding myself. Hi Leisa: im now about 2 weeks post. These messages can have a number of benefits during communication: Feeling statements can be a way to express assertiveness without causing listeners to feel blamed, accused, defensive, or guilty. One common pitfall when using "I feel' statements is to use them as a way to express a judgment or assign blame to the other person. I am going to get a second opinion from another doctor in the practice. Ideally, this allows the other person to concentrate on helping to alleviate the discomfort, rather than defending themselves. I'm always making a drs appointment about something! Starts off with a headache and nausea like morning sickness! In April nothing, and from there the worst anxiety and panic attacks started, headaches. I am 49 and I swear this hit me overnight. Hi Sherrici I'm so sorry that you are going through this also, no you are definately not imaging these symptoms. I feel ______. I just stay in my room now. Should not be any higher than 30. May be an avenue to explore if all tests have come back fine. feeling scared and depressed..hope things will get better for everyone soon! Try our Symptom Checker Got any other symptoms? Used correctly, they can remove an accusatory tone in the speaker's statements and allow people to express their point without getting a defensive reaction. Feeling statements are often used in therapy and many mental health professionals encourage their use in everyday communication. Hi Sherricl & Ukkiwibird (and all you lovely ladies out there)!!! My head hurts all the way down through my neck! One way to accomplish this is through the use of "I feel" statements, also known as feeling statements, I-messages, or just I-statements. I think the polyp made my lining look thicker than it was. underwent upper and lower endoscopies today in hopes of finding out why appetite gone and nauseous. Without a subpoena, voluntary compliance on the part of your Internet Service Provider, or additional records from a third party, information stored or retrieved for this purpose alone cannot usually be used to identify you. But be reassured you really are ok. Hormones effect every part of our body and it's normal. Not quite dizziness, more like I'm on a boat. I hope this works, too soon to tell right now. Hoping it ends soon..sending you lots of hugs xx. The nurse was lovely and all fine. My doctors think stress/anxiety are causing my symptoms. I've had the same pelvic pain and my going to the Dr. this week. I have pain in my RIGHT shoulder blade that comes and goes. All lab test perfect once i rule out no heart issues from cardiologist as already have been been by my dr but i have to be certain. I did need to start taking medication, but I don't want to be on it. Registered number: 10004395 Registered office: Fulford Grange, Micklefield Lane, Rawdon, Leeds, LS19 6BA. Then COVID. I am a believer in God/Jesus as well and He is my Saviour! The nauseau and anxiety are just awful. I am taking a natural supplement for perimenopause but don't know if it's helping. Each softgel contains broad spectrum hemp extract that provides a wide range of hemp's cannabinoids, terpenes, flavonoids, and other beneficial compounds. Do you ever resolve that issue? I was convinced that I had interstitial cystitis, I googled everything I could for my symptoms and finally resigned myself to continuing my oral and vaginal estrogen, having acupuncture and trying to just put one foot in front of the other to get through the really horrible days. It does not burn when I pee and this too comes and goes. I've had my blood, urine, fecal checked --- all have come out normal. I was also of the opinion that I will die home alone and no one will find me! And always scared of everything. So happy to have found this site, I finally don't feel so alone. i can totally picture myself doing this! I've had anxiety since little, so I'm ALREADY on meds for it, benzos. NOW, the bladder! I just turned 53 and have been post-menopausal for almost 2 years. and Privacy Policy and steps will be taken to remove posts identified So i was googling pretty much what causes elevated sed rate and alp rates. 2018;6:e4831. There is no shame in taking medications when you need them. And now that anxiety is UP UP UP, my pills are struggling to work. Right now my biggest symptom is my bladder. I cant quite put my finger on all the unwellness i feel, but have a doctor cousin who assures me that what i feel is valid even if doctors dont quite understand it. I'm praying every day. I have to force myself to move then I do feel better after awhile. You are SO not alone! I found that what helped was Probiotic Pearls for women's vaginal and digestive health. praying for us all, Hi there! I have my faith and i know i would be in so much worse shape without Him in my life and have done plenty of praying. Erin Johnston, LCSW is a therapist, counselor, coach, and mediator with a private practice in Chicago, Illinois. And it does make you feel nausea. I was having weird urinary type symptoms that come and go. My kids are grown and gone as well..i do feel lonely and the few friends I have they don't have it as bad as us so they don't understand..like you im seating here constantly worrying. this seriously needs to stop. I have so many odd symptoms I just feel like I'm about to drop dead any minute. Insomnia. the constant worry of something horrible is going to happen!!! Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. (lol). i have severe nausea, ear ringing, and every other horrible symptom. How are you doing present day? I started having stabbing (like almost electric shock pains) just above my pelvis bone. i have similar issues i have sibo and low iron i found out by seeing an integrative doctor she ordered antibiotics for the sibo and said after taking it i will be a diffrent person but when i read the side effect of the med im scared to take it the reaction with covid vaccine my body is so senstive to meds . I've been to the doctors office twice regarding this. My sed rate was also high over 120. It is likely that Susan only got a defensive response. My shoulder blade and ear and throat pain have gotten better and I was feeling pretty good and now I'm having alot of acid relux and feeling like I need to burp and cant. but my health anxiety is through the roof and I keep thinking there has to be something wrong with me but they just haven't found it yet, aw bless you i know the feeling, are you taking iron? I don't have a cold or asthma. No copyright infringement intended. It is so obviously hormone related since it's worse in the morning and best in the evening. googling this fills me with worry, glad to see I'm not alone, i also have been diagnosed with SIBOi spent so much money on the test, supplements, probiotics etc.since i have started my hormone replacement these issues have cleared up IDK, That's interesting Corinne the one thing that keeps me (semi)sane and that helps me think it's hormonal rather than something more horrendous is that on the rare occasions that I have a period these days, both the day before and on day 1 of my period I feel almost "normal". I read a post you wrote about shoulder blade,throat and ear pain. Hope yours clears up soon, it gets you down doesn't it when you don't know what the problem is xxx. Patient is a UK registered trade mark. Our website is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. I don't get any pain either with this, and before I never got pain with IC . I feel like i always have some kind of physical problem and it's giving me major health anxiety. Uggh.. it is really getting to me. People sometimes find feeling statements extremely difficult. My nausea kind of went away replaced by this head crap and not sure what is worse. This article discusses what "I feel" statements are, how they are used, and why they are beneficial in communication. What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality. Thank God autoimmune diseases have been ruled out. When I first started this menopause "thang" I was like "this is a piece of cake"! it started jan 2016 but past 3 months have beem horrible. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for anonymous statistical purposes. But now, postmenopausal my life is pure misery. when i do deep breathing to try and relieve the anxiety it causes I feel a heaviness in my chest. Hopefully we will all see an improvement in our symptoms soon. i dont know how i miss your recommendation for sibo as i am checking this site too often so i still looking for a cure for my Gerd and sibo yes as i seen the holistic doctor she prescribed antibiotics which is very scary to take it i read many bad review about it as an alternative she prescribed If i want to take the herbal supplements, take, Oregnao Oil 230 mg twice aday for 4 weeks.